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Mourning Faith Somerville

We mourn with Ross, Don & Leslie, Diane & Lee and all their children and grandchildren in the passing of Faith this past week.

The Visitation and Celebration of Life will take place at Toll Funeral Home.

Visitation: Monday, November 28, 6-8pm

Celebration of Life: Tuesday, November 29, 1pm

The service will also be live-streamed, visit dennistoll.ca for the link

“Honesty is the best policy…” (Ain’t that the truth!)

Challenge Central: a CBC devotional

By: Alicia Clarke

I find myself trying to teach my kids that it is better to confess their sin and tell the truth, as without doing that, most times, they will find themselves needing to further lie to conceal the misdeed, which makes the original sin so much bigger!

Most of us complicate our lives with dishonesty. Consider that whenever we are not truthful, we create an alternate reality. And subsequently, we are forced to live a life in both worlds: the true one and the one we’ve created. On the other hand, when we choose honesty in all aspects of life, including our marriage, our business, and our relationships, we live the same life wherever we are. Honesty leads to simplicity, but dishonesty leads to duplicity – the exact opposite. Proverbs 10:9 speaks to this: “Whoever walks in integrity walks securely, but he who makes his ways crooked will be found out.”

Consider the other benefits of an honest lifestyle:

  • Closer friendships. Honesty and integrity pave the way for greater intimacy. Your friends love the “true you,” not the one you’ve artificially created.
  • Higher quality friends. Honesty attracts honesty. People who are trustworthy and honest attract trustworthy and honest friends. And those are the best friends to have.
  • Trust. Honest people are trusted by others.
  • Less stress – Dishonesty needs to be maintained. Pretending to be something you are not requires constant attention to detail, even for the most experienced. Honest people are better able to relax because they are just being themselves and, naturally, feel better about themselves and less overwhelmed. Unfortunately, early in life, we learn that dishonesty can have incredible short-term benefits. It can get us out of trouble. It can get us what we want. It can make it easier to please the people around us. But dishonesty requires a lot of mental effort to keep up the façade, to hide the sin and ultimately, more deception must be committed to conceal the truth.

Living an honest life takes effort – it is easy to sin, and it takes great discipline to do what is right. It requires a decision to pursue it and some action steps to get it started. 2 Timothy 2:22 states we are to “Flee also youthful lusts; but pursue righteousness, faith, love, peace with those who call on the Lord out of a pure heart.”

To get started, consider some of these essential truths to living an honest life:

  • Christ-like character and integrity in your life make honesty easier. When you choose to live a life with Christ-like character, you will soon realize that you have nothing to hide… and honesty is a much easier path if you don’t have anything to hide. There are countless aspects to this point that pertain to our spouses, our children, our bosses, and friends. Pursue honesty in all of them. 
  • Consider the long-term consequences of a short-term gain. As I mentioned, one of the reasons that we begin living dishonestly in the first place is that the short-term gains seem obvious. Unfortunately, these short-term gains have long-term consequences. We would be wise to consider them and count the real cost of our decisions.
  • Living an honest life on the outside requires you to live an honest life on the inside. If you are going to be completely honest with others, you’ve got to be completely honest with yourself. If we have sins in our lives that we have been denying, we need to acknowledge them, repent of them, and address them.

Honesty is the best policy, and it requires the effort of us enacting Paul’s advice in Ephesians 4:22-24 to put off our old self that has been corrupted by its deceitful desires and to put on the new self, rooted in God’s truth. And that’s the truth!

Where Is The Joy This Season?

Challenge Central: a CBC devotional

By: Shannon Green

If you know me, you know how much I enjoy the Christmas season. My friends often mock me for how early I get my tree and decorations up in my home. I love to enjoy the warm glow of the tree lights and hear Christmas songs for as long as possible. Songs such as “Joy To the World” fill my home for a good two months. But what does that joy mean, especially when sometimes we do not feel so joyful? It can be extra difficult to watch others in excitement when we are not feeling all that joy-filled. Is this joy not supposed to give us strength? What happens when that strength is waning?

The verse in the Bible that says the “joy of the Lord is your strength” comes from Nehemiah 8:10. In this passage, the children of Israel have come out of exile and returned to Jerusalem. They were listening to the law being read and were overcome with the gravity of their sin and were weeping about how they had been living against God’s law. However, instead of being condemned, they were told by Nehemiah to celebrate because of the “joy of the Lord.” The children of Israel are God’s people; He loved them, and now they were out of exile. Focusing on God’s joy and love for them should be the strength they need to be in a right relationship with Him.

Other passages about joy in the New Testament are Romans 15:13, where it says, “May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, so that by the power of the Holy Spirit you may abound in hope.” This is the source of our joy, the hope we have in Christ that He has conquered the world and He is coming again. He has also given us the Holy Spirit to work in our hearts and lives and direct us to a right relationship with Him. Romans 14:17 reminds us, “For the kingdom of God is not a matter of eating and drinking but of righteousness and peace and joy in the Holy Spirit.” Finally, our instructions in Philippians 4:4, “Rejoice in the Lord always; again, I will say rejoice.” This joy of the Lord is given when we accept His provision of righteousness by grace. This is something to rejoice in!

The well-known Christmas song “Joy to the World” is often sung during the Christmas season, but it is not just a Christmas song. It directs us to the hope of Jesus’ return.

“Joy to the world! The Lord is come;

Let Earth receive her King;

Let every heart prepare Him room,

And heaven and nature sing.”

Philippians 2:9-10 says that on that day, all of heaven and earth will sing and repeat the song of joy for all eternity. We are not there yet. Many are not rejoicing in the Lord, and in fact, many are on the attack. God promises to return, every knee will bow, and every tongue will confess that He is Lord.

“No more let sin and sorrows grow,

Nor thorns infest the ground;

He comes to make His blessings flow

Far as the curse is found.”

This is not the case in our world today. There is so much sorrow, sin, and strife. This makes finding joy difficult. If we look at the state of the world today, it is no wonder we can be filled with a sense of hopelessness. God says that the story is not done, and we have hope that needs to be shared with the world. This is not our home! We have a future with Christ, and this song’s truths point us to that promise.

“He rules the world with truth and grace,

And makes the nations prove,

The glories of His righteousness

And wonders of His love.”

We are promised that this is not how things will be forever. He will wipe away every tear, and death will be no more (Rev. 21:4). This should give us hope and rejoicing in our hearts regardless of the situation around us.

The challenge this Christmas season and beyond is to not just look at the circumstances around us but to hope in Christ. This gives new eyes for the future and a joy to share with others. There is an urgency to spread the gospel’s joy and good news in a world that desperately needs the strength and joy only found in Jesus. May we look beyond this world with a newfound joy and celebrate the grace bestowed on us through the unending love of God. Now that is something we can be joyful about! “Joy to the world, the Lord is come!”

Safe Families Brantford Fundraising Concert: Handel’s Messiah

You are invited to a special fundraising event. Safe Families Brantford welcomes Ensemble Cantate Iterum, choir and orchestra, with special guest soloists, led by artistic director Johann VanIttersum, in presenting Handel’s Messiah on

Friday, December 2, 2022 at 8:00 pm.

22 Holiday Drive, Brantford Ontario (Living Water Reformed Church)

Tickets available from Eventbrite.

$35 in advance or

$40 at the door.

Seating is limited.

Ephesians Growth Group Time Change + Dinner!

If you’ve been considering joining the Ephesians Growth Group that meets every other Thursday, now’s a great time! The group is now meeting from 5:30-7:30 PM so they can get home and get the kids to bed at a better time. They will also be eating dinner together each time they meet, so if you want to join them, click the link below to get contact information for Pastor Lars or Caleb so they can plan for enough food.

https://cbcbrantford.ca/growthgroups/ephesians/